我：对啊，我朋友他们都很喜欢跳舞。

妈：喜欢是一回事，也要可以跳才行啊。谁知道那时候。。。

静止

my heart sank immediately and i felt like crying.

do you have to be SO encouraging, honestly?

you are totally hinting that i might not be able to dance ANYMORE even after this op. do you think you really SHOULD say that even if you really FEEL so? do you have to drive me near tears? haven't you been an expert at doing so already?

you've already displayed your fucking inconsiderate and insensitive side to your daughter who had just gone for an operation by blaming her for going for operation, and by saying that you don't understand why your daughter has to go for the operation coz she could totally walk around normally just that she couldn't squat and couldn't dance.

oh yar. how would you understand? you never had a passion. oh, sorry. you do hold a passion for alcohol. you said you can NEVER live without it.

draw an analogy, my dear mother. it's the same to me.

and pls. accept the truth. i've already gone for the operation. now what i can do is just heal up proper and quick.

how encouraging... how encouraging indeed. that you do not have faith in this.

ok. then don't. i never seek my main support from you anyways. i don't expect that from someone who consistently gets drunk and miserable.